Cons of dating an older man
I felt sad for him and I understood what he was going through, but I was relieved to know that those woods were behind me.I'm not a lost little lamb anymore, but rather, a confident, sexy lion.But still, the decision is yours to decide if age makes a difference or not and if you are ready to face what others might think or say.After all, you’re the only one who knows what can truly make you happy and not them.So, yeah, I've been disappointed by my past boyfriends' lack of scheduling ability compared to my own, but Ben made them look like professional bookkeepers. I memorized a script to tell my friends when he would constantly bail."Well, you know, he went from his college lifestyle in which he had regular classes, to a consistent day job, to, you know, finding little need to plan for anything or put events in a calendar, but he texted me today, so Embarrassment is not a feeling I'm too familiar with (see: confident, sexy lion comment), but at first I was somewhat ashamed to be dating a younger man. There were even times when the thought of our age difference made me feel taller and then him. As soon as I stopped giving a fuck, I felt awesome. I soon wanted to tell everyone, "I'm dating a younger guy, isn't that totally progressive of me!? I do a ton to make sure I don't get pregnant, so I kept finding myself asking, how am I now mothering this 25-year-old?
I remember being a little lamb myself in my mid-twenties.I often found myself saying "when I was your age,"and I hated it. At times, I felt like I was more of a teacher then a girlfriend.I wasn't learning anything from him because I had already found the answers to my questions.Age, experience, and stability fall down on the plus side of dating an older woman.However, older women often have other responsibilities such as children or elderly parents to care for.